Sex and Relationships: Midlife Secrets Shared by Rebekah Beneteau

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Episode 7: Sex and Relationships: Midlife Secrets Shared by Rebekah Beneteau

EPISODE SUMMARY:

Young, old, male, or female, we all share something in common: sex. Almost all of us like to have sex. Nearly everyone does it, and yet, having and discussing sex in midlife can be difficult. For women, there are so many stereotypes and stigmas placed on the sexuality of older women. Aging is often associated with being less desirable and less sexually active, and it makes us hesitant to want to be open and confident with our desires and promiscuity. To help spread positivity surrounding midlife women feeling confident and embracing sex is Rebekah Beneteau. As a sex and relationship coach, Rebekah has seen and heard firsthand the struggles midlife women face when it comes to sex. Rebekah herself struggled for years with her own relationship with sex, prioritizing the pleasure of others over her own. Now, Rebekah uses her experiences to share tips and tools to help people embrace sex and sexuality, spice things up, and feel confident. In today’s episode, we sat down with Rebekah to discuss how midlife women can get back their sexual confidence, how to rediscover your partner, how to express sexual wants and needs to your partner, and the importance of normalizing conversations about sex in society.

Rebekah Beneteau:

As a sex and relationship coach, Rebekah Beneteau understands all too well the rocky relationships we have with our bodies and sex. For years, Rebekah struggled with her own negative relationship with sex, seeing sex as a way to please others rather than something to please herself with. In her thirties, she vowed to make her own sexual pleasure a priority. She discovered Lafayette Morehouse’s research into expanding sexual potential through the female orgasm, trained as a Sacred Intimate under tantra teachers affiliated with Shalom Mountain in 2013, and received Fem Domme training from Midori in 2014. Through her experiences, Rebekah created a more positive and pleasure-filled sex life for herself. Now, she uses her expertise to help others overcome sexual hurdles in their lives and better their sexual experiences both with themselves and their partners. Along with being a sex and relationship coach, Rebekah is also an ordained non-denominational minister by the Sanctuary of the Beloved church, Sacred oOder of Melchidezek, a blogger, and an author.

Pleasure Evolution

Services
- Vision for Your Future Special
  - Gratified Life Discovery Session
    - Free half-hour session to figure out if sex coaching is the right fit
  - During sessions clients can:
    - Shed old conditioning around “appropriate” sexuality
    - Embrace desires for the same sex, or the opposite sex, or multiple partners
    - Uncover what truly arouses you and becoming empowered to experience it
    - Explore power exchange or roleplay
    - Talk about desires for alternative relationship styles (such as polygamy, swinging, etc.)
    - Overcome sexual trauma and its aftereffects
    - Gain body confidence or sexual confidence through education and training
    - Learn to communicate needs and desires in relationship
    - Energy healing for sexual vitality as well as for reversing premature ejaculation, erectile dysfunction
- Sacred Intimacy
  - Sessions are tailored to the need of the client
  - Through the session clients can
    - Heal the effect of emotional and physical trauma
    - Release shame
    - Deprogram your mind and body from old conditioning
    - Build advanced tools of communication and connection when building intimacy
    - Learn new sexual techniques to please your partner
    - Find your pleasure and the language to ask for what you want
    - Learn to receive pleasure
  - Activities tailored to individuals’ needs and may include
    - Breathwork
    - Tantric Exercises
    - Energy Work
    - Sensory Development Bodywork
    - Roleplay/Control and Power Exchange
    - Sensation Play
    - Erogenous Zone Body Mapping
    - Food Preparation, Sharing and/or Feeding
    - Shopping Trips for Clothes and/or Sex Toys
    - Bathing
    - Massage
    - Couples Sexual Techniques and Communication Training
    - Spiritual Ritual
    - Partnered Meditation
- Access Consciousness Classes and Services
  - Access Consciousness Bars Sessions
    - During the session, practitioner lightly holds specific points on your head that dissipate electromagnetic component of thoughts, feelings, emotions
    - Has assisted thousands of people with better health, ease of sleep, weight loss, better sex and relationships, relief from anxiety, less stress, etc.
- Energy Healing
  - Sessions held over webcam or in person in Asheville studio (occasionally in New York and Philadelphia)
  - How the session works
    - Talk about your experiences before lying down and letting Rebekah conduct healing
    - Modality works on body, beliefs spiritual connection in order to change your reality
    - Energy work will balance field and allow you to have a different experience
    - You will be able to risk changing your dynamics, will learn to choose differently in the moment
  - Through sessions you can
    - Learn your unique life purpose
    - Develop the intention and ability to accomplish life goals
    - Establish deep connection with inner spiritual guidance and fulfill your heart’s true longings
    - Promote physical healing of many disease conditions
    - Restore a sense of well-being and emotional stability
    - Clear and strengthen mental capacities
    - Learn the creative process from your Divine Core through the Hara and Aura into the physical world
- Online Learning
  - Webinars
    - Masturbation Made Better
    - Authentic Dating-Stop Seeking and Start Finding
    - Getting Kinky-An Intro to BDSM
    - The Joys of Oral Sex; Making Every Mouthful Matter
- Speaking
  - Speaking Engagements
    - Topics
      - Desire as a Woman’s Path to Empowerment
      - Man Whispering 101-A fun and informative explanation of the differences between men and women and how to use those differences when looking for or being in a relationship
      - Dating and Mating: Never too old for romance-It’s all about self-love and cultivating your inner seductress or slumbering white knight
      - Let’s Get Kinky! A beginner’s introduction to BDSM
  - Being Socials
    - Interactive evening of communication games surrounding sex that make it fun to give and receive attention
    - Opportunity to meet new people and learn about your friends